Tuesday, March 20, 2007

Are you a Jumper or a Dangler?


Supposes you were not shy. What would you do? What would your life be like? Is this something you think about?


Suppose you were not shy. What would you be concerned with? Would there be another "fly in the ointment" in your life?


Is it possible that your shyness is a distraction? If your shyness diverting you from a bigger issue you fear? Is you shyness protecting you from something you fear doing?


I love swimming. In order to swim you have to get into the pool. Some people jump in. Others dangle their feet and slowly get adjusted to the water. The problem with dangling your feet is you may not go in the pool. If you jump you are in the pool.


So which one are you? Are you the foot dangler or the jumper. Most likely if you are shy you are the foot dangler. Can you become the jumper? Is your shyness preventing you from being the jumper even if it is just once and a while?


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Marcia, Your Confidence Coach

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